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Choosing a Sex Toy for Men and Women

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 Which toy is right for you?

Choosing a sex toy can feel kind of intimidating if you have never done it before. Here at Wicked Wanda’s, we always have friendly, knowledgeable staff on hand to answer your questions. You can be guaranteed that no question is considered a stupid one and we’ve probably heard it before.

Most people who are interested in buying a sex toy are doing it because they have heard about the pleasurable benefits of using them. Sex toys generally allow people to arrive at orgasm at a faster pace than manual, oral and/or penetrative vaginal/anal sex. They can be used alone or with a partner. As we age, deal with illness and sometimes disabling medical conditions, sex toys can sometimes breathe new life into a tired sex life.

There are a number of questions you can ask yourself before you think about making your purchases:

1) What part of my body do I want to get off? Clitoris? G-spot? Nipples? Anus? Prostate gland? Multiple areas? Thrusting? Cockrings?

Clit vibes: Tango

G-spot toys: HipG, Steel Fun Wand, Gigi ; Lust by Jopen

Nipples toys: Nipple suckers; nipple clamps

Anal toys (vibrating): Protouch Butt Plug, Aneros Vice Silicone Butt Plug

Anal toys (non-vibrating): Steel Fun Wand, Mood Naught Butt Plug and Aneros Helix Syn

Masturbator: Vulcan Ripe Mouth + Vibe

P-spot toys: VIBRATING: Protouch Vibrating Butt Plug, Aneros Vice Vibrating Silicone Butt Plug

DO NOT VIBRATE: Steel Fun Wand and Aneros Helix Syn

Multiple areas/dual function: Magic Banana; G-Vibe

Cockrings: Tantus Super Soft Cock Ring, Seven Creations Vibrating Cock Ring

2) What is my level of expertise with sex toys? Beginner? Intermediate? Expert?

Beginner: Maia Bullet, Mircroscopic Mini G

Intermediate: Hitachi Magic Wand, Orbito

Expert: Lelo toys; Jopen, We-Vibe

 3) What kind of power/intensity do I need/want? Do I have any kinds of medical conditions that will require more or less power?

Low: Le Reve Posable Vibe

Medium: Mircrospic Mini G

High: Crisantemi Rabbit Vibe, We-Vibe Tango

Mind blown! : Hitachi Magic Wand

4) What can I afford? Keep in mind that sometimes you get exactly what you pay for. If you are looking for durable toys, look for those that are made of wood, glass, metal and 100% medical-grade silicone. Ask about the warranties. Those with shorter warranties are probably not as long-lived. If you cannot afford an expensive toy, consider throwing a condom on it to preserve its integrity, particularly if it is a jelly toy (which is made of a porous material).

Low-cost: HipG, Bullet vibe

Medium-cost: Hitachi Magic Wand; Magic Banana

High-cost: Lelo’s line of products; We Vibe’s line of products; Love Style

5) Can I use this in the shower or bath tub?

6) Do I want it to look like a penis or not?

7) Do I care whether it is powered by electricity, batteries, solar or USB ?

8) Do I live alone or with roommates/parents/others? How noisy is it?

Low-volume: Lelo, Jopen, Magic Banana, Love Style

Medium-volume: Generally most battery-operated vibes are quieter than electric ones

High-volume: Hitachi Magic Wand

9) Am I going to use with solo or with a partner?

10) Do I want something that is wearable and hands-free? Wishbone Strapless Strap-On

11) Do I prefer an eco-friendly toy? Magic Banana, Love Style Glass, Steel Fun Wand

12) Do I want to share it with a partner (or more)? If so, can it be sterilized for cleanliness? Glass dildo, steel dildo, metal butt plug; Dildos made out of 100% medical-grade silicone

13) Do I want dual function? P-spot/G-spot stimulator: Cobra, steel dildos; glass dildos; G-Vibe

14) Do I want to give my kegels a workout? Magic Banana; G-Spot Lollipop

15) Do I want to play long-distance? USB-enabled We-Vibe 4, Fuddgy

16) What would be suitable for a gift without being too personal (ie. bridal shower)? Dona Massage Candle, Shunga Massage oil

17) Does it have accessories that you can buy to change its function? Hitachi Magic Wand, Wand Essentials Tri-gasm ;Wand Essentials Rabbit Attachment; VibeRite G-Spot Attachment; Massager for Him


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