How to Choose a Dildo

What's the deal with vibrators vs. dildos? Well, dildos are for insertable fun without the buzz, while vibrators bring the party with their buzzing prowess. Now, let's figure out which dildo suits you.

1. Size Matters! Girth vs. Length

When it comes to choosing the right dildo, size matters! If you're not sure what size you'd like take a moment to think about a previous enjoyable experience with a penis or another toy, and use that as your benchmark to determine the width that suits you best. If you've not experienced either, fingers can also help determine the girth you find most enjoyable.

For those specifically seeking G-spot or Prostate stimulation remember that both these zones are just a few inches inside, so excessive length isn't necessary. In fact, many people find that girth matters more! If your dildo is too long, you can always adjust for shallower penetration or add buffer rings like Ohnut. If it's a tad shorter than your desired length, no worries—you can still explore and discover sweet spots inside. However, when it comes to thickness, be mindful. If you ever had the experience of trying to insert a toy that's too wide, lets just say, it might not be the most enjoyable experience. 

If you're someone that into the sensation of fullness and being stretched, a chunkier dildo like The Boss by Fun Factory might be the ideal choice for you. For a more direct G-spot or P-spot experience, consider options that are curved and more firm such as the Electric Eel, and Fun Factory Magnum.

Regardless of your preference, it's best not to jump straight to the largest option. Starting with a comfortable size is key to avoiding discomfort or pain. Each person is unique, so find the size that suits your preferences and enjoy the pleasure journey!



Now, Let's Talk Length

Once you've nailed down the girth, it's time to shift the focus to finding the perfect length for your pleasure journey. Keep in mind that this is a highly personal choice and may involve experimenting with a few different toys. Drawing from past experiences can be helpful—consider that the average biological penis typically ranges from five to six inches. If you're into fast, rough penetration, you might lean towards a toy closer to the length of an average penis or smaller (under 6 inches), long dildos can reach the cervix and potentially cause discomfort. Although, some folks are all about that cervix-smashing life! So, it's entirely up to you and what brings you pleasure. Find the length that suits your desires.

Which Dildo Shape Should I Choose?

We've got the classic straight dildo that you can find in a variety of materials. 

Advantages:

- Provides even stimulation pressure along the inner walls of the body.
- Great for size training "stretching" to take bigger toys, fist etc.
- Great for those who find curved toys too intense on their g-spot or prostate

  Considerations:

- May not target specific pleasure points like the G-spot or P-spot as effectively.

Curved dildos are ideal for g-spot and prostate play and come in a variety of materials. The curved tip of the dildo can feel really nice to stimulate the clitoris too!

2. We've got some Curved Dildo to tickle all your juicy spots.

Advantages:

- Specifically designed to target the G-spot or P-spot.
- The curve can enhance comfort and effectiveness, especially with firm materials.
- Offers a more tailored and focused stimulation.
-May cause Squirting!

  Considerations:

- The effectiveness of the curve can vary based on individual anatomy.

 Material Considerations:

- Firm Materials (Ceramic, Glass, Metal): Can provide a more direct and intense sensation. The firmness complements the shape, especially in the case of a curved dildo. 

- Soft Materials like silicone, offer a more flexible and forgiving experience because it nonform better to the body's curves.

Do I Choose a Soft or Firm Dildo?

Firmness

Soft or firm? In a nutshell, opt for firmer m toys if you're aiming for smaller sizes—they're perfect for G-spot and P-spot stimulation (these areas respond well to firm pressure).

Now, if you're feeling adventurous and want to try a girthier dildo, softer is the way to go. Look for something with a silicone core or a slightly floppy dildo that molds to your body, ensuring a comfortable experience without making your body conform to it. It's all about finding the right balance for your pleasure journey. 

Material

When it comes to materials, the dildos offers a vast array of choices. From jelly to PVC, silicone to wood, the options seem endless, but not all materials are created equal in terms of safety.

For a straightforward and safe choice, opt for dildos made from non-porous materials. Silicone, ceramics, glass, stainless steel, or sealed wood are excellent examples. However, this isn't an exhaustive list, as the market is surprisingly diverse when it comes to body-safe options.

While it's true that non-porous materials can be pricier, it's crucial to prioritize your health and well-being. If you're on a budget, alternatives like PVC, jelly, TPR, and TPE may seem tempting, but be cautious. Watch out for phthalates, ensure separate use for anal and vaginal activities, acknowledge potential sterilization challenges, and preferably use a condom with porous toys.

Despite the precautions associated with porous materials, some individuals appreciate the softer and more affordable sensations they offer. Achieving a similar softness and realism can be found in silicone, albeit at a higher price point.

We carry a small selection of TPR dildos because its what some of our customers prefer -- we also have the highest quality toys because we won't dictate what's "right" or "wrong" for you, but we always encourage our customers to understand the care requirements of your chosen material because it is essential to minimize any potential risks, especially if you're leaning towards a porous option. 

Now, let's dive into the different types of dildos. From realistic replicas to imaginative fantasy creations, the options are endless:

1. Hard and Soft Dildos: Rigid for precise stimulation or soft for a gentler touch.
2. Realistic Dildos: Mimicking the textures and sensations of the human body.
3. Non-representational Dildos: Get creative with abstract or mythical designs.
4. Double-ended Dildos: Versatile for simultaneous pleasure or partner play.
5. Dildos without Testicles: Various shapes, sizes, colors, and materials.
6. Strap-on and Harness Compatible Dildos: Ensure compatibility for a secure experience.
7. Pack-and-play Dildos: Worn discreetly for a realistic bulge when the time is right.
8. Suction Cup Dildos: Hands-free penetration on any smooth surface.
9. Fantasy Dildos: Unleash your imagination with unique shapes and colors.
10. Inflatable Dildos: Customize the size for a sensation of fullness.
11. Large and Small Dildos: Tailor your experience with different sizes.
12. Cyberskin Dildos: Mimic human skin for a lifelike feel.

We hope that this guide helps you choose the perfect dildo for your holes. Until next time, stay Wicked!