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Longer conversations, unexpected questions and the things people usually whisper about.
Who is Miss Wanda?
I am Miss Wanda.
I am a lifelong entrepreneur, mother, grandmother, Domme, inventor and sexual wellness coach. My path has taken me through business, motherhood, love, loss, Wicked Wanda’s and more than a little starting over.
Today, I use what I have learned to make room for honest conversations about sex, pleasure, identity and the complicated business of being human.
25 years of listening
I learned by listening.
People were often looking for permission before they were looking for products.
Why Dear Miss Wanda?
Creating safe space.
For much of my own life, I was looking for somewhere questions were allowed and curiosity was not shameful. Dear Miss Wanda is my way of creating more of that space.
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People came into Wicked Wanda’s for products, but often what they needed first was permission — to ask, explore, admit what they wanted or simply say the thing they could not say anywhere else.
And I listened.
The road here
How I Got Here
The path was never particularly straight. A few chapters mattered enough to change everything that came after.
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Early career
Building a career
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Early career
Building a career
Before Wicked Wanda’s, Wanda built a career in real estate, commercial leasing and entrepreneurship, often working in spaces where she did not always feel she belonged.
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Family
Building a life
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Family
Building a life
Alongside business came motherhood, responsibility and raising three daughters while trying to build a life that rarely followed a conventional path.
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The hard years
Love, loss and change
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The hard years
Love, loss and change
Relationships, grief and major losses marked a difficult chapter and forced Wanda to question what still belonged in the life she had built.
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Turning point
Starting over
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Turning point
Starting over
Stepping away from what no longer fit, menopause and reclaiming her own power became part of choosing a different direction.
Wicked Wanda's to DMW
Opening the conversation
Wicked Wanda's to DMW
Opening the conversation
Wicked Wanda’s became a place for listening, questions and sexual wellness. Dear Miss Wanda carries those conversations into a wider space.
Behind Miss Wanda
The woman behind Miss Wanda.
There is the work, the stories and the conversations. And then there is the rest of life — the ordinary, funny, unpolished moments that never make it into a formal bio.
This is part of Wanda too.
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Work with Wanda
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Speaking and conversations about sexual wellness in its broadest, most human sense.
Ask Miss Wanda
Ask Miss Wanda
Have something you are not quite sure who else to ask? Write to Wanda.