Your Intimacy Matters: Let’s Talk - Consultation with Wanda

About Me

Hi, I’m Wanda Cotie, the founder of Wicked Wanda’s. For the last 25 years, I’ve been dedicated to normalizing the adult sex product industry and creating safe spaces for exploration and education. Through Wicked Wanda’s, I’ve hosted lifestyle events, explored BDSM and kink, and guided people through power dynamics that shape every part of their lives—from money to relationships.

I’ve seen how deeply shame and fear surround conversations about sex. Many people feel weighed down by guilt or judgment, but I believe in stripping all that away. I’m not a doctor or therapist, but I’ve spent decades listening to people share their struggles and helping them reclaim their power—whether it’s leaving a toxic relationship, discovering a new identity, or simply learning to love themselves again.

If you’re navigating intimacy challenges, exploring desires, or seeking expert resources, I’m here to help. I offer a safe, supportive space where you can unpack your thoughts, without fear or shame. I also have a trusted network of referrals, from medical specialists to somatic sex coaches, therapists, and more.

Book a talk with me! Here’s how I can support you:

• Sexual Wellness Consultations: Let’s unpack your intimacy challenges in a safe, open environment.
• Education on BDSM and Power Dynamics: Discover how power shapes both your intimate and professional life.
• Referrals to Experts: Access my network of trusted professionals, including medical specialists, therapists, and coaches.
• Product Recommendations: Find the perfect tools to support your intimate health and pleasure.

Speaking Engagements

I also offer speaking services for trade shows, events, and intimate gatherings. I share my personal journey of self-discovery and empowerment, as well as practical insights on intimacy, wellness, and how sex can be a powerful tool for self-empowerment.

We can meet in store (327 Bank Street) or virtually