"Which Vibrator Should I Choose?": A Vulva-Owners Guide to Buying a Vibrator

"What is the best vibrator?" I've been helping people with their sex toy purchases for over a decade, and this is a question I get all the time; my response usually goes something like this, "well, that depends!", sex toys are like tools, they all do different things, and the best vibrator for you will depend on what gets your honey pot going. Think about how you masturbate or what you like to experience from a toy. Do you want to vibrator just for your clit? Do you want to experience g-spot stimulation?

Read on for more guidance on choosing the best vibrator for you.

"I want a vibrator to stimulate my clitoris."

To stimulate your clitoris, look at external vibrators like bullets, wands, and air pulsation toys. External toys stimulate the outer body and are a trendy sex toy for vulva-owners as a large majority orgasm from clitoral stimulation.

 

Bullet Vibrators: "I am looking for a small, discrete vibe."

Bullets are small vibrators that are discreet and can be pretty powerful. They can be used solo or with a partner(s).

Best Budget Bullet: Adore U Nia Bullet

Nia is the perfect little pocket bullet with 9 vibration modes, ABS plastic, splashproof, and rechargeable with USB. Moreover, Nia by Adore U is priced right if you're looking for a budget-friendly option!  



Most Powerful Bullet: We-Vibe Tango X

Tango-X is our go-to bullet vibrator for those wanting to experience intense vibration. The tip of the toy allows you to massage the clitoris with precision. In addition, tango X is whisper quiet, with 7 vibration modes plus 8 intensity levels! This means you get many options for enjoying this toy; plus, Tango is waterproof, rechargeable, and rechargeable and holds a charge for up to 2 hours. 

Favorite Luxury Bullet: Le Wand Bullet Vibrator

Le Wand Bullet Vibrator is an excellent toy for beginners and experienced users. The vibrator is made from body-safe metal that is so smooth and sleek that it glides over your skin oh-so effortlessly and includes two silicone textured sleeves to transform your experience. In addition, Le Wand Bullet is rechargeable, has 11 pulsating patterns and 4 vibration intensities that are whisper quiet, and is 100% waterproof for bathtub fun.  

Wand Vibrators: "Give me something powerful!"

Wand vibrators are iconic; you might have heard of the legendary Magic Wand or "Hitachi Magic Wand." This vibrator has a fascinating and feminist history going back to the late '60s,

"perhaps more than any other vibrator, the Magic Wand — formerly known as the Hitachi Magic Wand — has achieved a kind of iconic status as a symbol of female sexual liberation, with a fan base and popularity that has spanned generations." (Cosmopolitan, 2017).

Wand vibrators are known for their power and versatility. These toys can easily be used with a partner(s); they are great for full body massage and, of course, happy endings ;) Wands cover a large surface area and can be held in place during oral and penetrative sex. Warning: this combo might skyrocket you into another dimension.

Many wand vibrators also have head attachments that can be added to the vibrator transforming it from an external toy to a g-spot, p-spot, and even a penis massager. If you have a partner with a penis, experiment holding the vibrator against the perineum for indirect prostate stimulation.

Favorite Overall Wand: Magic Wand Original

 Nothing beats the original Magic Wand! There's a reason this plug-in massager has been around since the 70s – with two vibration settings (high and higher), the frequency and power are unmatched at 6,300 RPM. The one downfall for some is its size, the original Magic Wand is over a foot long and weighs 1.5 lbs, so if you're a person who struggles with wrist pain or something of the like, we suggest looking for something lighter.


Best Compact Wand: Magic Wanda Mini

The Magic Wand Mini is a no-brainer if you'd like a more compact option. However, don't let its size fool you; 9.5 inches long and 9.7 ounces, the Mini has three intensity options ranging from 3,500 to 6,000 RPM. In addition, the smaller size allows you to have a more pinpointed stimulation of the clitoris and labia rather than broad genital stimulation like the Original.

Air-Pulsing Toys: "I want to get my clit sucked"

 Air-pulsing toys are a relatively new feature in the sex toy world, and this technology has quickly become a favorite for people with vulvas. These toys work by pushing little pulses of air that create a suction around the clitoris (or any part of the body) that resembles oral sex; need I say more?

Best Budget Air-pulse toy: Satisfyer Pro 2

Pro 2 uses Air-Pulse Technology to stimulate the clitoris into pure bliss. With 11 programs, you have a variety of intensities to play and experiment with. The Pro 2 is completely waterproof, has a removable silicone head for easy cleaning, and is rechargeable with a magnetic USB. We love this toy has an introduction into the suction toy world! It's worth noting that the Satisfyer Pro 2 isn't the most subtle of toys – the toy itself is loud compared to other suction toys available on the market.

Best Powerful Clitoral Sucker: Melt by We-Vibe

The Melt has 12 combinations of intensity and patterns; the feeling can be compared from gentle kisses to more potent suction. The toy is made from silky smooth silicone and is ergonomic, curved to fit comfortably between you and a partner. With Melt, you also have the option to sync the toy with the free We-Connect App, a great companion for couples doing long-distance.

Best Dual Stimulation Suction Toy: Coco by Puissante

Coco is a new vibrator by the French brand Puissante, part of a new generation of sexual wellness tools to empower vulva-owners. Coco is versatile, combining the latest air-pulse technology with powerful vibrations. The suction is found on one end, and the vibrator on another. Its flexible shaft allows Coco to be folded and used for dual stimulation. We love how flexible this toy is, literally and figuratively fitting different body shapes and options for how you can enjoy this toy.  

Wearable' Panty' Vibes: "I want to wear mine out."

Wearable vibrators sometimes called "panty vibes," have come a long way. Innovations in sex tech have made it so you can control your vibe from an app on your phone. Now you can fulfill that fantasy of getting off in the organics section at the grocery store 😉

Best Panty Vibe: Moxie by We-Vibe

This petite, discrete toy from We-Vibe packs a lot of punch to the pussy, in the best way! The Moxie is a wearable panty vibrator that is remote or app-controlled for hands-free play. It's coated in silky silicone that feels delightful nestled against the skin. The upper side of the toy has a raised bump that is meant to sit against the clitoris for targeted stimulation. The underside has a power button, magnetic plate, and charging elements. Place it where you would like against your vulva, put on your underwear and then place the magnet on the outside of your underwear to hold it. There are ten vibration patterns and different levels of intensity that you can experiment with. Download the We-Connect application and register your toy to control it with a smartphone. You can send an invitation to a partner through the app, allowing them to take control. Wear the Moxie for extended periods and have a partner surprise you throughout the day with teasing vibrations - maybe while doing chores, running errands, or simply resting on the couch.

 

 Internal Vibrators: "I want vaginal penetration/g-spot stimulation."

To stimulate your g-spot, look for an internal vibrator that stimulates the g-region and a-spot or gives you a feeling of fullness.

Best Budget G-Spot Vibrator: Mood Frisky by Doc Johnson

The Mood Frisky's large angled head is perfect for hitting your sweet spot. The Frisky is waterproof and multi-speed, requiring 2 AA batterie, a twist dial at the base, and non-porous plastic that is easy to clean. This no-fuss vibrator is a staple for another wanting to experience intense g-spot stimulation.

 

Best Selling Girthy and Phallic Vibrator: Master by Satisfyer

Generously proportioned, the Master measures 1.85" in diameter with a shaft length of 6.7". The super soft silicone combined with strong vibrations will search out your G-spot and fill you with endless XXL delight. Satisfyer has made the Master from silicone, waterproof, rechargeable, and quiet with a 15-year guarantee.

Favorite G-Spot Vibrator: Rave by We-Vibe

The Rave has been a best-selling g-spot for years. A simple design that packs a fantastic rumbling punch of vibration. A feature that sets this toy apart is its asymmetrical design. It is lovely for internal stimulation because the body takes hold of the toy and brings it into the sweet spot. Rave is ergonomic, silicone, robust with 10+ vibration modes, splashproof, rechargeable, quiet, and holds a charge for up to 2 hours. For those techies, the Rave can be synced to the We-Connect app for more features.

Best Thrusting Hands-free G-Spot Toy: Stronic G Pulsator 2 by Fun Factory

Fun Factory has changed the game by creating the world's only pulsating toy. Made in Germany and curved to perfection, the thrusts stimulate your G-spot hands-free for fuller and more profound orgasms. The Stronic G is made from high-quality silicone, waterproof, has 10 vibration functions, is rechargeable, and is super quiet and discrete.

 

Rabbit Style Vibrators: "I want both at the same time!"

To stimulate your g-spot and clit, look for a dual-stimulation vibrator. Also known as 'rabbit' vibrators, these toys are designed to penetrate while simultaneously stimulating the clitoris; hello, blended orgasms!

Best Selling Petite Rabbit Toys: Magic Bunny by Satisfyer

Undoubtedly, Satisfyer has created excellent budget-friendly dual stimulation vibrators that are sure to excite. However, the Magic Bunny is one of our best sellers if you want something a little smaller. Magic Bunny has two powerful motors made from soft silicone, rechargeable, waterproof, 15-year guarantee, quiet and curved for g-region play.

Customer Favourite Budget Friendly Rabbit: Mr. Rabbit by Satisfyer

With two robust motors built-in, Mr. Rabbit combines super-strong vibrations for toe-curling vaginal and clitoral stimulation, and its flexible shaft nestles against your curves. In addition, Mr. Rabbit is made silicone, waterproof, rechargeable entirely, and has a 15-year guarantee!

 

Best Dual Stimulation Vibrator: Nova 2 by We-Vibe

The Nova 2 is a beautifully designed toy that accommodates most bodies. The problem with the majority of rabbit vibrators is there either isn't enough pressure on the clit or way too much, and the rigid piece hits your pubic bone – just not fun. With Nova curve, the penetrative part is ideal for g-spot stimulation without being too large, and the clitoral piece is super flexible and rolls into the center of the toy. So as you penetrate, the bit doesn't jab but rolls under to allow for a more thumb-like coverage. Nova has two powerful motors, 10+ vibrations, is rechargeable, quiet, waterproof, made from silicone, and can be combined with the free We-Connect App.

Best Dual Stimulation with Suction: Coco by Puissante

We are obsessed with this new toy; Coco has it all! If you like suction toys, you'll love this toy by the French brand Puissante. With a clit sucker on one end and a powerful vibrator on the other, the flexible shaft allows you to stimulate your g-spot simultaneously. With over 10 vibration patterns, Coco will have you melting with blended orgasms.

 

As you can see, there is so much variety when choosing a vibrator. I hope this guide helps you find something to suit your needs. This list is a sample of what we have in-store; please contact us if you have any questions.