"What vibrator should i choose?" The Ultimate Vibrator Guide UPDATED 2023

"What's the best vibrator?" With over a decade of experience assisting individuals in their sex toy selections, this question is a recurring one. Typically, my response revolves around the fact that it's quite subjective. Sex toys can be likened to tools, each serving distinct purposes. Your optimal vibrator hinges on what stimulates your desires. So I encourage you tp reflect on your personal methods of self-pleasure and your preferences for toy experiences. Are you seeking clitoral stimulation exclusively? Or are you interested in exploring g-spot sensations? Maybe both at the same time!

Read on for more guidance on choosing the best vibrator for you.

 

"I want a vibrator to stimulate my clitoris."

For clitoral excitement, explore external vibrators like bullet vibes, wand massagers, and air pulsation toys. External toys target the outer body and are especially popular among vulva owners, as many achieve orgasm through stimulation of the external clitoral gland.

 

Bullet Vibrators: "I am looking for a small, discrete vibe."

Bullets are compact yet potent vibrators. They can be used solo or with a partner(s).

Best Budget Bullet: Adore U Nia Bullet

Nia, the pocket-sized bullet, offers 9 vibration modes, ABS plastic construction, splashproof design, and USB recharging. Adore U's Nia is also budget-friendly, making it a great choice if you're cost-conscious.



Most Powerful Bullet: We-Vibe Tango X

For intense vibrations, the Tango-X bullet vibrator is our recommendation. Its tapered tip enables precise clitoral massage. With 7 vibration modes and 8 intensity levels, Tango X is versatile and whisper-quiet. It's waterproof, rechargeable, and boasts up to 2 hours of use on a single charge.

Favorite Luxury Bullet: Vesper Crave Necklace

Experience the epitome of luxury with this versatile pendant – an exquisite jewelry piece that also serves as a powerful bullet vibrator. Discreetly designed, it hangs between the breasts on a chain link, concealing its secret button that activates four rumbly vibration modes. Crafted from stainless steel, it offers precise pleasure with its rounded tip and even offers subtle temperature play. Wear it confidently as an accessory or layer it, and enjoy its portable pleasure on the go.

Something different: Super-Powered External Vibrator: Volta by Fun Factory

Experience the transformative pleasure of the Volta by Fun Factory, a dual-action vibrator designed to ignite intense pleasure through innovative features. With its distinctive dual-tipped design, the Volta is engineered to provide exhilarating stimulation to both the clitoris and labia, offering an unparalleled fusion of powerful vibrations and tantalizing fluttering motions. 

 

 Wand Vibrators:

Wand Vibrators: "Give me something powerful!"

Wand vibrators are iconic and trace back to the legendary Hitachi Magic Wand. Known for their strength and versatility, wands excel at full-body massages and, of course, intimate moments. Their broad coverage makes them great for oral and penetrative sex, potentially taking your experience to another level.

Many wand models feature attachments, transforming them into g-spot, p-spot, or penis massagers. PRO TIP: Experiment by applying the vibrator to the perineum for indirect prostate pleasure if you have a male partner.

New Arrival! This rumbly wand is a game-changer: VIM by Fun Factory

Elevating wand vibrators, the Fun Factory Vim Wand brings finesse to the game. Unlike typical wands, it boasts an innovative weighted motor for deep, rumbly vibes at any speed. The versatility of Vim's vibrations is unparalleled, catering to all stages of pleasure. With customizable settings, you're the maestro of your experience. Its sleek design features brushed aluminum controls, a textured grip handle, and a lube-friendly silicone head for pure comfort. The concentrated weight in the head ensures potent vibrations without hand fatigue, while the handle remains vibration-free. Wands are timeless favorites for their versatility and user-friendliness, making them a must-have for all pleasure enthusiasts.


Favorite Overall Wand: Magic Wand Original

 Nothing beats the original Magic Wand! There's a reason this plug-in massager has been around since the 70s – with two vibration settings (high and higher), the frequency and power are unmatched at 6,300 RPM. The original Magic Wand is over a foot long and weighs 1.5 lbs, so if you're a person who struggles with wrist pain (or something of the like) we suggest looking for something lighter.


Best Compact Wand: Magic Wanda Mini

The Magic Wand Mini is a no-brainer if you'd like a more compact option. However, don't let its size fool you; 9.5 inches long and 9.7 ounces, the Mini has three intensity options ranging from 3,500 to 6,000 RPM. In addition, the smaller size allows you to have a more pinpointed stimulation of the clitoris and labia rather than broad genital stimulation like the Original.

 

Air-Pulsing Toys: "I want to get my clit sucked"

 Air-pulsing toys are a recent sensation in the sex toy realm, adored by vulva owners. They mimic oral sex by creating suction around the clitoris; need I say more?

Best Budget Air-pulse toy: Satisfyer Pro 2

Pro 2 uses Air-Pulse Technology to stimulate the clitoris into pure bliss. With 11 programs, you have a variety of intensities to play and experiment with. The Pro 2 is completely waterproof, has a removable silicone head for easy cleaning, and is rechargeable with a magnetic USB. We love this toy has an introduction into the suction toy world! It's worth noting that the Satisfyer Pro 2 isn't the most subtle – the toy itself is loud compared to other suction toys available on the market.

Powerful Clitoral Sucker: Melt by We-Vibe

The Melt boasts 12 intensity and pattern combinations, mimicking everything from gentle kisses to stronger suction. Its silicone construction is smooth and ergonomic. The We-Connect App allows long-distance control for couples.


NEW ARRIVAL: Our customers are LOVING Lelo Sona 2 Travel 

The Lelo Sona 2 Cruise utilizes SenSonic technology for clitoral stimulation. Unlike conventional methods, it employs pulsations to engage both internal and external parts of the clitoris. Notably, it features cruise control, enhancing power as it's pressed against the body – distinct from other toys that lose power under pressure.


                                              Customer Review Sona 2 

"Surprisingly, I found greater satisfaction in the lower intensity settings (I'd usually consider myself a bit of a power queen) as higher levels were a bit overwhelming, leading to instant climaxes. The lower settings allowed more time to savor sensations, explore patterns, and gradually escalate the intensity. The rolling, wave-like patterns are particularly enjoyable, it felt like I was edging myself and it was so fucking hot"

Best Dual Stimulation Suction Toy - Great for solo and couples play!
Coco by Puissante

Coco, a creation by French brand Puissante, offers both air-pulse technology and powerful vibrations. Suction on one end and vibration on the other. Its flexible shaft allows for dual stimulation, catering to various body shapes. 

The Coco offers incredible versatility for couples' play. With two vulvas, its slender shaft allows for simultaneous grinding, while the flexible design caters to wrapping around a penis for stroking. The suction feature brings unique pleasure, akin to a rimmer, and can also be positioned on the perineum for combined stimulation with the vibrator on the anus or prostate. This toy truly presents a multitude of exciting possibilities!

Thumping Vibe:  "I want to feeling throbbing"

Meet the Deia Arouser – your new playmate in the art of seduction! This bad boy isn't just a mood-setter; it's a vibe with a thumperrrr. Engineered for prelude perfection, the Deia Arouser taps into pleasure like a clandestine expert, using its tantalizing tapping tech to mimic the oh-so-divine human touch.

Get ready for a symphony of sensations that'll leave you and your partner saying, "Encore, please!" The Deia Arouser: where cheeky meets chic.

 


WearablePantyVibes: "I want to wear mine out."

Wearable vibrators sometimes called "panty vibes," have come a long way since the bulky designs of the 90s and early 2000s. Innovations in sex tech have made it so you can control your vibe from an app on your phone. 

Best Panty Vibe: Moxie by We-Vibe

This petite, discrete toy from We-Vibe packs a lot of punch to the pussy, in the best way! The Moxie is a wearable panty vibrator that is remote or app-controlled for hands-free play. It's coated in silky silicone that feels delightful nestled against the skin. The upper side of the toy has a raised bump that is meant to sit against the clitoris for targeted stimulation. The underside has a power button, magnetic plate, and charging elements. Place it where you would like against your vulva, put on your underwear and then place the magnet on the outside of your underwear to hold it. There are ten vibration patterns and different levels of intensity that you can experiment with. Download the We-Connect application and register your toy to control it with a smartphone. You can send an invitation to a partner through the app, allowing them to take control. Wear the Moxie for extended periods and have a partner surprise you throughout the day with teasing vibrations - maybe while doing chores, running errands, or simply resting on the couch.


 Internal Vibrators: "I want vaginal penetration/g-spot stimulation."

To stimulate your g-spot, look for an internal vibrator that stimulates the g-region and a-spot or gives you a feeling of fullness.

Favorite G-Spot Vibrator: Rave by We-Vibe

The Rave has been a best-selling g-spot for years. A simple design that packs a fantastic rumbling punch of vibration. A feature that sets this toy apart is its asymmetrical design. It is lovely for internal stimulation because the body takes hold of the toy and brings it into the sweet spot. Rave is ergonomic, silicone, robust with 10+ vibration modes, splashproof, rechargeable, quiet, and holds a charge for up to 2 hours. For those techies, the Rave can be synced to the We-Connect app for more features.

Best Thrusting Hands-free G-Spot Toy: Stronic G Pulsator 2 by Fun Factory

Fun Factory has changed the game by creating the world's only pulsating toy. Made in Germany and curved to perfection, the thrusts stimulate your G-spot hands-free for fuller and more profound orgasms. The Stronic G is made from high-quality silicone, waterproof, has 10 vibration functions, is rechargeable, and is super quiet and discrete.

 

Best Girthy Vibrator: Big Boss by Fun Factory

Meet the aptly named "Big Boss" by Fun Factory – a sizable internal vibrator designed to provide an intense fullness for those seeking a robust experience. While not anatomically precise, it boasts a phallic shape with vein-like ridges and a wide "head." The looped handle ensures easy grip for controlled thrusting and penetration depth. Crafted from medium-firm silicone, it offers gentle flexibility.




G-spot and Temperator play:
Deia Hot and Cold Massager

Elevate your temperature play with the Deia Hot & Cold massager – your gateway to thrilling new sensations! This innovative device combines temperature-changing technology with vibrations, delivering unmatched experiences for both external and internal stimulation. Craft your perfect journey by blending hot and cold sensations, complemented by 10 vibration settings. Deia is your ticket to an unforgettable adventure in temperature-infused pleasure.


Rabbit Style Vibrators: "I want both at the same time!"

To stimulate your g-spot and clit, look for a dual-stimulation vibrator. Also known as 'rabbit' vibrators, these toys are designed to penetrate while simultaneously stimulating the clitoris; hello, blended orgasms!

Best Selling Buget Rabbit: Magic Bunny by Satisfyer

Undoubtedly, Satisfyer has created excellent budget-friendly dual stimulation vibrators that are sure to excite. However, the Magic Bunny is one of our best sellers if you want something a little smaller. Magic Bunny has two powerful motors made from soft silicone, rechargeable, waterproof, 15-year guarantee, quiet and curved for g-region play.

 

Best "Rabbit" Dual Stimulation Vibrator : Miss Bi by Fun Factory

Introducing Miss Bi, Fun Factory's exceptional rabbit-style vibrator designed to bring dual pleasure to vulva-owners seeking G-spot and clitoral stimulation. Its thoughtful design features a shorter yet wider shaft for fuller G-spot sensations, along with a broader clitoral extension to cater to varying clit positions. Equipped with two motors, Miss Bi grants independent control over the shaft and clitoral arm, allowing for personalized experiences. Crafted from body-safe silicone, it offers a luxurious feel and is fully waterproof. The user-friendly interface facilitates effortless exploration of diverse vibration patterns and intensities, while the rechargeable battery ensures lasting enjoyment. Uniting G-spot and clitoral pleasure, Miss Bi guarantees a premium, indulgent experience that will leave a lasting impression.

As you can see, there is so much variety when choosing a vibrator. I hope this guide helps you find something to suit your needs. This list is a sample of what we have in-store; please contact us if you have any questions.