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✦ A complete premium set from b-Vibe. This Silicone Anal Training Dilator Set steps you through four graduated sizes — from a slim beginner dilator up to a substantial advanced one — in soft, body-safe silicone, each with a wear-friendly safety base. Built to b-Vibe's premium standard for gradual, comfortable dilation from first stretch to confident play.
What is an anal dilator set? Dilators are graduated sizes you work through to gently and gradually stretch and relax the anal opening over time — the comfortable, unrushed way to prepare your body for larger toys or a partner. You start with the smallest, stay with it until it feels easy, then step up. A four-size set gives you the whole path in one box, so you're never guessing what comes next. New to this? Our Backdoor Play Starter Kit guide is the perfect companion read.
Whether you're a seasoned anal-play expert or just starting out, the right approach to building up the necessary stretch can transform the experience — and that's exactly what the b-Vibe Silicone Anal Training Dilator Set is built for. Working through progressively larger sizes gently stretches and relaxes the anal opening over time, so you can move on to other toys or a partner whenever you like, without a lot of buildup in the moment.
The set includes four graduated dilators that step up steadily in both length and girth, from a slim, welcoming beginner size up to a substantial advanced one. Each is moulded from soft, body-safe silicone that's smooth against the skin and easy to clean, with a comfortable contour and a safety base that keeps it anchored outside the body — comfortable enough to wear through the day for controlled, unhurried dilation. It's a complete progression in one kit, and a standout in our butt plugs range. Pair it with plenty of water-based lube.
| Size 1 | Size 2 | Size 3 | Size 4 | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Insertable length | 4.3 in (11 cm) | 4.8 in (12.2 cm) | 5.35 in (13.6 cm) | 5.9 in (15 cm) |
| Shaft circumference | 2.1 in (5.5 cm) | 2.75 in (7 cm) | 3.35 in (8.5 cm) | 3.93 in (10 cm) |
| Approx. diameter | ~0.67 in (1.75 cm) | ~0.88 in (2.23 cm) | ~1.07 in (2.7 cm) | ~1.25 in (3.18 cm) |
| Base width | 1.5 in (3.8 cm) | 1.9 in (4.8 cm) | 2.25 in (5.7 cm) | 2.5 in (6.3 cm) |
| 4 graduated sizes | Beginner to advanced in one kit — the whole progression, step by step. |
| Progressive length & girth | Each size adds both length and width for gradual, controlled dilation. |
| Wearable safety base | Smooth contour and a safety base let you wear a dilator comfortably through the day. |
| Soft body-safe silicone | Gentle against the skin, non-porous and easy to clean. |
| Dilation without the rush | Designed for gradual training — prepare comfortably for toys or a partner. |
| Discreet shipping | Plain packaging, no product names or logos. |
Always start with Size 1. Give yourself relaxed, unhurried time, apply generous water-based lube to both the dilator and yourself, and ease the tapered tip in slowly, letting your body adjust so it sits comfortably. The smooth contour and safety base mean you can relax and even wear it a while — the goal is gentle, controlled dilation, not a race. Keep the base outside the body at all times.
Stay with each size until it feels genuinely easy and comfortable, then move up to the next. Working through all four may take many sessions, and that steady pace is exactly the point — dilation without the rush is what makes it comfortable and effective, and prepares you for larger toys or a partner with confidence. Not sure where to start or how quickly to progress? Our beginner's guide walks you through it — or pop into the Ottawa shop for a warm, judgment-free chat in person.
They step up steadily in both length and girth. Insertable lengths run from 4.3" (Size 1) to 5.9" (Size 4), and shaft circumferences from 2.1" up to 3.93" — roughly 0.67" to 1.25" in diameter. Each shares the same smooth, comfortable contour, so as you progress the shape stays familiar and only the size changes.
Both — that's the point of a four-size set. Size 1 is slim and welcoming for a gentle start, while Size 4 gives more experienced users a substantial stretch to work toward. You simply begin where you're comfortable and progress at your own pace. Our beginner's guide is a helpful companion if you're just starting out.
There's no set schedule — move up only when the current dilator feels genuinely easy and comfortable, which may take several sessions per size. Dilation is meant to be gradual and unrushed; going at your body's pace is what keeps it comfortable and effective. Never force a size before you're ready.
Yes — the smooth contour and safety base are designed so you can comfortably wear a dilator for a stretch of time, which supports gentle, controlled dilation. As always, listen to your body, use enough lube, keep the base outside the body, and take it out if anything stops feeling comfortable.
Water-based lube, and plenty of it — the area doesn't self-lubricate, so anal play needs generous lubrication. Avoid silicone lube, which can degrade silicone over time. You'll find options in our water-based lube collection.
♥ Starting your training journey? Come say hi. Wicked Wanda's is a real shop in Ottawa, and there's no question too awkward — we'll help you start comfortably and progress at the right pace, judgment-free and in person. Prefer to shop from home? We ship discreetly to any territory across Canada, with local Ottawa delivery on select items.
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