Many people have a mental block around anal sex because they either stigmatize it as a practice that only gay men partake in or perceive it as a painful sex act. While it might be uncomfortable at first, ass play should never be painful. People enjoy mind-blowing orgasms from anal stimulation, regardless of their gender and/or sexual orientation! You have the power to decide how to feel about your asshole. If you choose to eroticize it, you can make it a beautiful part of your sexuality!